Almost Heaven

I went back home last weekend to West Virginia.  Yes, it is ‘almost heaven’.  Do you see the wall of trees behind the welcome sign?  That is what I saw for days of driving.  Nothing but hills and trees and sky.  My home state.  Country roads.  They took me home.  I belonged there.  John Denver knew.

It has been a long time since I drove back home.  I’m so glad I did.  The rolling hills are dramatic.  Don’t take your eyes off the road, because every twisting turn in the crooked roads has a breathtaking view.

Vermont comes close to this grandeur.  It is breathtaking.  Just me and the hills of West Virginia.  The memories were a warm blanket.  Almost heaven.

               

I have vivid memories of driving on old Rt 60 in our family station wagon.  There were houses built on ‘near cliffs’, as the hills were so steep.  We worried going uphill, as the old car barely hit 30 MPH.  If you like the roller coaster, you would love this drive.  No one in the family liked the drive.  I was the one who got car sick.

When the interstate was built, it felt like going from horse and buggy to driving a car.  The most interesting part is seeing how on earth they engineered putting roads straight through hills.  Imagine a huge hill, cut through the middle.  Here is our approach to one:

There is another ‘almost heaven’ to my visit.

My brother died in December of 2019, and we hoped for a spring funeral.  Covid hit, and the funeral was on hold for what seemed like forever.  At last, all my sisters gathered this past weekend.

Our brother’s funeral was a gift, a chance to be together.  We laughed and cried.  We told old stories and looked at pictures.  It was the spark of a flint and a cozy blanket, all together.  We were sisters.  It felt so good.

The funeral was at Trinity Episcopal Church where we had all grown up.  I was married in that church, and my sisters were, too.  Nothing had changed.  The stairs were exactly the same, and that made me smile.  Walking up and down brought memories from childhood to adulthood.  Almost heaven.

I was a reader during the service.  Somehow my words were the best things to say.

1 John 3:1-2
See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God; and that is what we are.  The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.  Beloved, we are God’s children now; what we will be has not yet been revealed.  What we do know is this: when he is revealed, we will be like him, for we will see him as he is.

I practiced the reading many times.  It felt right.  I knew when I read to the congregation, that for my brother it wasn’t ‘almost’, it was heaven.

Jennie

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Today’s Quote

As long as there is one upright man, as long as there is one compassionate woman, the contagion may spread and the scene is not desolate. Hope is the…

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Summer Solstice Sun

There’s nothing better than an Eric Carle sun
to welcome the Summer Solstice.


Happy Summer!

Jennie

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End of the School Year, a Family Event

“Gloria, we’re going to a castle.
It’s a party for the Aqua Room families.
You’re in charge of the picnic basket.”

“Are you having a fun ride in the wagon?
It’s a long ride up the hill.”

“Whoa!  What is this place?”

“It’s a castle, Bancroft Castle on Gibbet Hill.”

Children ran and played in the old castle ruins.
Families brought a picnic basket.
We ate ice cream, sang songs, and danced together to the Boston robots.

The highlight of the evening was giving families their child’s year-end portfolio,
a collection over each month of art, picture stories, writing, and photos.
For some children, writing their name was a landmark.
For others, it was detailed self-portraits and story telling.
For parents, it was priceless.

A final group photo captured everyone’s personality.
I love this photo!

Here is a video of families enjoying the evening.

Happy Summer,
Jennie

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Quotations on Stories

“We owe it to each other to tell stories.”                                                                          Neil Gaiman   “Fiction is the …

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Chapter Reading Newsletter to Families

My final newsletter to families at school, telling them how important reading aloud chapter books is to their children.  Hopefully this opens the door for them.

Chapter Reading
June 16, 2021

Chapter reading is one of our treasured moments of the day.  We bring to life the imagination, the world, and the past.  The anticipation of ‘what happens next’ stirs excitement every day.  Children listen and think.  They ask questions.  Ask your child, “At chapter reading where do you make the pictures?”  You will hear your child say, “In your head.”

When we finish a good book and then start a new one, emotions run high and low.  The end of a good book is so satisfying and pleasant, yet…it is over.  That is the wonderful roller coaster of reading.  And, with each chapter book we read, we ride that roller coaster again and again.

We have finished Little House on the Prairie, and it was thrilling; from Jack the dog, to building a house, to Indians in the house.  Pa and his neighbor Mr. Scott dug a well, and we learned about the bad gas deep inside the earth (Pa had to save Mr. Scott) that only a candle can detect.  Of course, I had to bring in my grandfather’s childhood portrait wearing a miner’s hat with the same candle. Laura and her family had fever ‘n’ ague (malaria), an illness that people thought came from eating watermelons.  There was also fear of Indians, which was an opportunity for Gloria to discuss diversity and prejudice.

We read a second Doctor Doolittle book, Doctor Dolittle’s Journey (ask your child about Long Arrow and Spider Monkey Island), and we have just started reading On the Banks of Plum Creek which picks up when Laura and her family leave the prairie in Kansas.  We recommend that you finish reading the book to your child over the summer.  We have read as far as page 132.  The next chapter is The Fish-Trap.

We voted on our favorite chapter books this year.  Charlotte’s Web was the clear winner!

These are the chapter books we have read this year.  Good books are meant to be read over and over again.  We encourage you to revisit these wonderful books with your child:

Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White

My Father’s Dragon by Ruth Stiles

The Story of Doctor Dolittle by Hugh Lofting

Mr. Popper’s Penguins by Florence and Richard Atwater

Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder

Little House on the Prairie by Laura Ingalls Wilder

Doctor Dolittle’s Journey, adapted by N.H. Kleinbaum

On the Banks of Plum Creek, by Laura Ingalls Wilder

The fundamental constant that gives children the tools to succeed in school is languageThe more words that children hear, the better they will do in school.  Reading aloud to children is far more than an enjoyable experience.  It increases their language development!  In kindergarten through grade four, the primary source of instruction is oral.  The more words that a child has heard, the better s/he will understand the instruction, and the better s/he will perform in school, in all subjects.  Therefore, we will always campaign to read aloud.

A wonderful guide to book recommendations and to understanding the importance of reading aloud is the million-copy bestseller book, The Read-Aloud Handbook.  I have used the book since my children were little.  The author, Jim Trelease, visited the Aqua Room and GCS.  We are featured in the seventh edition of the book.

Jennie

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Today’s Quote

…Whose broad stripes and bright stars through the perilous fight… ~ Francis Scott Key ~ _____________

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“Ladeez and Gentlemen, Children of All Ages…”

The circus came to town!  Children were excited to perform for their families on Zoom.  It was a grand finalé to a month of learning about animals, what happens behind the scenes in a real circus, and writing circus picture stories.

Here’s why all of these events are important to children:

Children like excitement and adventure, and animals.  If I can tap their interests, I have a ready-made foundation for learning.  We covered science and nature (what do the animals eat?  How do they travel and train to perform?), math (how much rope is needed to put up a circus tent?  How many gallons of food do the animals eat?), and geography (where is Japan, Hungary, and Spain, where many of the performers are from?). It is a long list of learning, and a good one.  Perseverance and determination is speckled throughout, much like sprinkles on ice cream.

How do I start?  With books, of course.  The best circus book is “Circus”, by Peter Spier.

It starts at the very beginning, arriving at a site and setting up the circus.  Full page color illustrations show children everything, from the circus families in their trailers, to the animals, to practice, and to the circus itself.  I love this book!

We also read:
“Circus Family Dog”, by Andrew Clement
“The Farmer and the Clown” trilogy by Maria Frazee
“The Circus Baby”, by Maud & Miska Petersham

We read fact books, too.  One of the most interesting facts is about the elephants (no longer in many circuses.)  They walked through the towns in the middle of the night, as they were too big to travel with the other animals.  Did you know that the circus elephants were the first to cross the Brooklyn Bridge?  When the bridge was completed, people didn’t believe it was safe.  P.T. Barnum walked 21 elephants over the bridge.

Children wrote picture stories about being in a circus.  “If I were in a circus…”

These stories are priceless!  Picture stories are empowering, because they are an imprint of the mind, and all the words a child wants to say.  Illustrating their story lets the child know how important their words are.  The art of illustrating is a great beginning in expressing words and feelings – exactly what children need to do.

We played circus!  All the fun and practice was really a step in children feeling good and confident.  Play is powerful.  When we planned a circus performance for families, this was different, as children picked their own parts and decided what to do.  Really.  Teachers supported and cheered.  The result was empowered children who knocked their socks off.  Parents loved it.  More importantly, children had a big dose of self confidence and what happens after hard work.

Give children the tools, let them investigate, support their discovery, and there you have Education 101.  Throw in sprinkles and you have the love of learning.

Jennie

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Tanya, the Real Deal For Kindness

When you meet kindness head on, consider yourself lucky.

On our way home from a long overdue visit with our grandchildren, we stopped for dinner at an Applebee’s, our first dinner in a restaurant in over a year.  Our server was Tanya.  She was delightful, funny, and it was easy to strike up a conversation.  How do conversations evolve into something personal?  I can’t put my finger on it.  Tanya certainly didn’t share her life… but then again she did.

We talked about Covid and masks, how Applebee’s had kept their food service going, and if she had been able to keep working through the pandemic.  We talked about our trip and grandchildren and children.  I told her that I taught preschool.  Hubby asked if she had children- a casual question.

Her answer was not so casual, and one of the most inspiring stories both of us have heard.

Tanya was seeing another man.  He had been married, and he had two children.  Their mother was tragically hit by a car on the way to the dentist, and she was killed.  Without hesitating on what to do, she did the right thing, the kind thing.  She took in those two kids.  They were 12 and 14 years old.  The dad was in and out of the picture.

”How did the children feel?”

“They hated me, especially the girl… until I did her hair for her mother’s funeral.  Now they love me.”

She held back tears.  I did, too.

”Then, their father died.  They stayed with me.  They’re wonderful kids.  One of them works here.”

”Really?”

”Yes.  She’s right over there.”

”Can I meet her?”

So Tanya went to get her, proudly calling her ‘her daughter’.  I had the pleasure of telling her what a wonderful human being her ‘new mother’ is.  I shook the girl’s hand and looked directly into her eyes.  Was it awkward?  Yes, a little.  But, I wish everyone could be told by a stranger, in a restaurant, that their mom is one of the best, and that kindness matters.

Kindness is at the root of becoming a good person and a good citizen.  It’s what I teach my preschoolers in many different ways.  It’s the most important thing I teach children.

I’m lucky that I met kindness, head on.  Thank you, Tanya.

Jennie

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Amanda in Holland

We had a wonderful visit with our grandchildren after 18 long months.
Guess who loves Amanda!

Jennie

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