Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – Guest Post – I Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now! by Jennie Fitzkee

Thank you, Sally, for inviting me to tell my story of what I wish I knew when I was younger.

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I am sure like me, there have been times when you have wondered what difference might have been made to your life, if your younger self had been gifted with the experience and knowledge you have accumulated over the years.

I invited several friends from the writing community to share their thoughts on this subject which I am sure you will enjoy as much as I did.

 My guest today is pre-school teacher Jennie Fitzkee who shares her thoughts about the narrow views we tend to hold as children and young adults, and how life and experience teaches valuable lessons…

I Wish I Knew Then What I Know Now by Jennie Fitzkee

People- they should be turned inside out so we see their heart and their mind before their looks. I have learned much over my 70-plus years. My memories of meeting people and making friends long ago are crystal…

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Gloria Goes To Washington – Part 3, the Finale

In Part 2, Gloria saw the White House
and an Egyptian Mummy at the
Smithsonian Museum of Natural History.

Part 3
Hey Aqua Room,

Gloria had a really exciting day yesterday.  First she went to the Spy Museum!  It was pretty exciting because while doing all the Spy Activities, we spotted a friend.  Spot!  The Boston Dynamics robot.  Everyone was very excited.

Oh my goodness!  In my wildest dreams I never thought Tim would run into Spot.  And at the Spy Museum, no less.  You know how much we love the Boston Dynamics robots, especially Spot.  When the children saw this, they were jumping up and down, pointing, and yelling.

After we went to the National Gallery of Art.  Gloria and Tim were both so excited to see a big art show, just like the one at the Groton Post Office.  No Starry Night but there was a very famous painting by Leonardo da Vinci named Ginevra de’ Benci.

Before their trip to Washington, Tim told his parents and teachers that he wanted to see art masterpieces in Washington.  We had studied many famous works of art.  

Tim says to enjoy vacation and he can’t wait to see you when everyone gets back!

Tim and Gloria

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Children and Adults self-care meme…

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Gloria Goes To Washington – Part 2

In Part 1, Gloria and Tim visited the Lincoln Memorial.
President Lincoln believed in equality for all.
Tim and his parents thought Gloria would like that lesson.

Part 2
Hey Aqua Room,

Gloria had a very busy day yesterday!  First she went and saw the White House.  That is where the President of the United States of America lives!  Her favorite part was when a VIP left the White House, and lots and lots of cars with lights went by.

Then we went to the Smithsonian Museum of Natural History.  Gloria wanted to take a picture with this mummy from Egypt.  Spooky!

Finally we had lunch.  Gloria was adamant we get bar b q.  She had the brisket, with a side of mac and cheese of course.


Tim says I miss you!  Enjoy all your vacation weeks next week.

Tim and Gloria

My goodness!  We talked about the White House, and then mummies.  That was a long and fascinating conversation.  Finally I stood up and poked all over my body, saying “There is a skeleton, all your bones connected, inside everybody.  The outside is right here, skin and muscle.  It covers the bones, the skeleton.  Tim and Gloria saw a skeleton from Egypt, thousands of years old.  That is so cool!”

Stay tuned for Part 3, with a major work of art AND a big surprise.  Oh, my!

Jennie

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Gloria Goes To Washington – Part 1

Gloria has been in Washington D.C. with a classmate (I’ll call him Tim.)  His father sent an email and photos to the class each day about Gloria’s adventures in Washington.

Hey Aqua Room,

Tim wanted to send a note to give you an update on Gloria’s trip!  Today Gloria got to see the Lincoln Memorial.  President Lincoln believed in equality for all, which is a lesson we thought Gloria would like as well.

Tim also wanted to let everyone know he misses them!

Oh my goodness!  How wonderful is this on so many levels:

  • Gloria actually traveled to National places in Washington.
  • A child wanted Gloria to see Washington.
  • A parent “got it”, understood the big picture, and sent emails and photos to the class.

Understanding that Gloria is a person, accepting Gloria for who she is, and including her as a member of the family, is a life lesson for the heart, and for the ages.

Stay tuned for Part 2.

Jennie

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Family

I call my classroom a family.  We are a family.  Children hear me say all the time, “Once an Aqua Roomer, always an Aqua Roomer.”  That means family is always there for you.  Children can take Gloria home long after they move on to older classrooms- and they do.  Children can return to visit anytime, especially being a Guest Reader- and they do.

My family visited this past weekend, plus more days.  It was wonderful.  Hubby Steve is the baby of the family, and he and his sister are the last of the siblings.  We reminisced in a loud, wonderful, laughing, interrupting way- just the way it always was in his family.

She brought Steve a photo of their parents the day they were married.  He had never seen this photo and was moved to tears.

She also brought Steve his favorite childhood book.  Oh my, I have heard stories about his mother reading aloud this book to him and his sister since we were married.  It’s nice to finally see the book, after well over 40 years.  Steve couldn’t even speak.

Family is everything!  Whether it’s my Aqua Room preschool family or Steve’s family, it counts as #1.

I am catching up with all of your blogs.  Family first.

Jennie

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Visiting the Art Show

Last week I took the children and their families to see the Art Show.  It has been two years since we took a field trip.  As you can imagine, the event was eagerly anticipated by families as well as the children. Families were packed in the foyer at school, waiting as teachers walked the children to greet them.

I tried to do a little speech ahead of our walk to Post Office:

Families, thank you for joining us to see the Art Show.  When you get there and see the art…it’s okay to cry.

That broke the ice.  Everyone laughed out loud, but I could tell they relaxed…and their hearts swelled.

Of course once we got there, it was a mad commotion.  Parents found their child’s art, and I was up and down the line telling parents stories of how their child decided on what to make, and how they made it.  This was a celebration and a discovery, combined.  I understood.  It was a moment.

Once everyone was ‘ready’, I brought each child up to their masterpiece.  I told them how magnificent it was (yes, they were on stage in front of everyone), and then I told them how I remember how they made the painting, or why they chose the art.  We talked about it, in front of everyone.  You could have heard a pin drop.

When all was said and done, we posed for a group photo:

Art is the voice of the heart.

Jennie

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Calm Before the Storm

My favorite intersection for sunsets,
appropriately named Sunset Farm.

Today a storm was brewing.
The view was as beautiful as a sunset.

The surprise was a rare hailstorm.

“Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder”
~E.B. White~

Jennie

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The Best of Chapter Reading

imageMy Grandfather

Our current chapter reading book at school is Little House on the Prairie, by Laura Ingalls Wilder.  The last chapter that we read, ‘Indians in the House’, sparked intense questions and conversations about Indians and people who are different.  Diversity 101, through the eyes of children.  Gloria was part of the discussion.  She is different.  Laura was afraid of  Indians in her house, and some people are afraid of Gloria.  The Indian’s eyes sparkled at Laura, and Gloria’s smile is always there.  It’s what’s on the inside, not the outside, that matters.

The next chapter, ‘Fresh Water to Drink’, was riveting.  White knuckle and heart pounding.  The life and death adventure of digging a well, and the deadly gas deep in the ground, became a lesson in history.  I had family history that was much the same.

Pa and his neighbor, Mr. Scott, were digging a well.  Pa was careful to lower a candle each day into the deep hole to make sure the air was safe.  Bad gas lives deep under the earth.  Mr. Scott thought the candle was ‘foolishness’, and began digging without sending the candle down into the well.  The rest of the chapter was an edge-of-your-seat nail biter.

I love this chapter.  So did the children.  I realized I could connect what happened down in that well to something real; a portrait of my grandfather as a little boy wearing miner’s gear, including a candle on his helmet.  My grandfather and his father had mines in Pennsylvania and West Virginia.  I grew up with their stories and photographs, including this portrait.

I brought it to school the next day to show the children.  “This is my grandfather”, I said.  “He went deep under the earth, just like Pa and Mr. Scott.  What is that on his head?”  Children couldn’t sit.  They jumped up, pressed against me and each other, all wanting a closer look.  “That’s fire!” someone said.  “No, it’s a candle.”  “A candle is fire.”  “What did he do?”  Ah, those wonderful, spontaneous questions that spark the best learning.  This was ‘a moment’, fifteen children eager to hear more and learn.

I told them about mining, going underground, and about the candle.  I then showed them the Garth Williams illustrations in the chapter ‘Fresh Water to Drink’, with Ma and Pa turning the handle of the windlass to get Mr. Scott out of the well, and Pa digging the hole that is as deep as he is tall.

We talked about how hard that would be.  We imagined what it would be like inside the hole:  Dark or light?  Hot or cold?  Then someone asked, “How old is your grandfather?”

I was connecting generations and connecting learning.

I’ll be 72 next month.  I’m in the middle, where I have a strong, real link with the past, and also the present.  My one arm can reach and touch my parents from before 1920 and my grandparents from the 1880’s and 1890’s   They were just here ‘some years ago’.  My other arm can reach and touch my children and grandchildren, and all the preschoolers I teach.

I find this mind boggling; I’m equally part of the past, a long line of family history, and part of the present, teaching children and learning.  I want to connect all the lines.  I want people to know that I was there with my grandmother Nan who was born in The 1880’s, and with my grandmother Lulu who was born ten years later.  I want people to know that I understand life from that point forward.

More importantly, I want my preschoolers to have a firsthand piece of history.  It is a ‘real’ way to enhance learning.  That happened with my Grandfather’s portrait, and with chapter reading Little House on the Prairie.

Jennie

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Presenting the Art Show

“Art should make you feel, like music.”
~ Vasilly Kandinski ~

When children’s masterpieces were complete, framed and titled, I showed every work of art- slowly, with Vivaldi playing in the background.  I said nothing except the title of each piece.  Listen in the background to children’s excitement:

The next day we hung the Art Show, and it looks stunning.  The center is a finger paint mural of Starry Night.  Many little hands worked on it, and we added different layers each day, finishing with the round yellow stars.

“Every child is an artist.
It took me a lifetime to draw like a child”
~ Pablo Picasso ~

Children who chose to replicate a famous painting or specific items had a ‘real’ photo alongside.

Each particular style of art was titled, from Impressionism to Pointillism, to Cubism, to Abstract Art.  Here is Cubism:

Here is Abstract Painting:

Children wrote all the words to label their work.  Bravo!  Do you see the pallets they used to paint with real artist paint squeezed from tubes?  Do you see the hanging guest book for the community to sign and comment?  It will be full by mid May.

I hope you enjoyed a peek at their Masterpieces.  We take the children to see the Art Show on Thursday.

“Painting is poetry that is seen rather than felt.”
~ Leonardo da Vinci ~

Jennie

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