Hope, and a Wish Tree

This is a year of Hope.  Children need it.   Adults need it.  When they find Hope, it carries them along.  Far.  Wish Trees are beacons of hope, where people give their most important and sacred wishes.  They have been all over the world for centuries.

We’re planning a Wish Tree at school in the spring.  It will help children.  They need Hope and Wishes.

Have you ever seen a Wish Tree?

Walking with friends along a Cape Cod beach, we rounded a bend where the sand meets the water.  This was a remote stretch of the beach, quite a distance from the usual spot where people set up their chairs and umbrellas. The walk was long.

And there it was.  An old felled tree.  It was covered with shells, each one placed carefully. The shells were a multitude of types and sizes.  The enormity of what was right in front of us was enough to stop everyone in their tracks.

I knew right away it was a Wish Tree.

“Look at all those shells.  They’re so pretty”, said my friend.  And she reached to take one.

“No!” I shouted.  Everyone looked at me like I’d lost my mind.

“Don’t you know what this is?  It’s a Wish Tree.  Every shell is a wish that someone has put onto this tree.”

Silence

“These are sacred.  Well, they are to the people who placed their wish on the tree.  No wonder it’s out of the way, far from tourists.  The shells are so beautiful.”

More silence.

“I’d like to make a wish.  Would you?”

I carefully looked for just the right shell, one that spoke to me.  I picked the right one, and I had a ‘moment’, making a wish and hanging it on the tree.

Alice did the same thing.  And Jane and Paula did, too.  We were quiet. Everyone was now part of the Wish Tree.  How can so many thoughts and emotions run like a speeding train, and then settle into a warm, vibrant sunset, all in a matter of minutes?  That’s what happened at the Wish Tree.

While I had heard of Wish Trees, I had never seen one until now.  Lucky for me that I had read the outstanding YA book Wishtree by Katherine Applegate.

She also wrote the Newbery Award winning book, The One and Only Ivan.  Yes, she is that good.  Wishtree should have won the Newbery, too.  I read the book aloud to my grandchildren – for hours, multiple days, and we never stopped.

When I visit with the grandchildren, a beloved ritual is reading a story before bedtime. The musicality of words floating into the ear and going into the mind becomes an arrow that pierces the heart.  It always happens that way.

Thanksgiving a few years ago I brought along plenty of books to read aloud.  I also brought a new book to read.  Not a read-aloud for the children, but a book for me.  I never expected what would happen next.

The children were camping out and snuggled in sleeping bags in the bedroom. It was fun, but didn’t lend itself to seeing the pictures in a picture book.  I thought I would read to them a little of my book, Wishtree by Katherine Applegate. I hadn’t read the book, so we were all jumping into something new.

What started as one night of bedtime reading became the focus of our holiday together.  The book is outstanding.  It plucks at every scintilla of the heart.  There is no stopping, as the storyline keeps going.  So, we had to keep going.  We read the next day, and the next night, and so on, until we finished the book.  211 pages.  Just like chapter reading in my classroom at school, I was reading aloud with no pictures.  The big difference was reading the book in only a few days.  Somehow, that made reading more exciting.  Breathless.  Heart pounding.

Red is an oak tree with two hundred and sixteen rings.  He’s been around a long time, and he tells the story.  He’s a Wishtree, with a long and honorable history.  On the first day of May it’s been a tradition for people to put wishes on his tree, written on paper or cloth and  tied to his branches.  Sometimes those wishes are also whispered to Red.  He talks about his neighborhood:

Different languages, different food, different customs.  That’s our neighborhood: wild and tangled and colorful.  Like the best kind of garden.

Red talks about himself and people:

For a tree, communication is just as complicated and miraculous as it is for humans.  In a mysterious dance of sunlight and sugar, water and wind and soil, we build invisible bridges to connect with the world.

Can you imagine reading those sentences to children?  I had to stop.  My grandchildren said not a word.  Words were not necessary because Red had said them all.  We were humbled.  Spellbound.

The story is centered on two children in the neighborhood, Samar and Stephen, the host of animal families who live in Red the tree, and Francesca, whose family has owned Red for centuries.  It is history and uncovering the past, diversity and acceptance both then and now, friendship, nature, understanding, and great adventure.  Oh yes, adventure.  My grandchildren and I fell in love with Bongo the bird, Red’s best friend.  Lewis and Clark are cats, FreshBakedBread is the mama skunk, and on and on, with animals who are the supporting characters in this book.

When someone carves LEAVE on Red, the plot thickens.  This becomes sleuth work.  The stories of the children, and Francesca’s past, and also Red’s past come together.  It is captivating.  The message it sends is a beacon of hope and promise.

Like Red, I’ve been around a long time.  I know the best books, and this is one of the best.

And to think that I happened upon a real Wish Tree on Cape Cod.  Wow!

I am happy to bring the tradition of a Wish Tree to school.  The children need this.

Jennie

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Gloria Enjoying St. Patrick’s Day

Happy St. Patrick’s Day from Gloria!

Jennie

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Humpty Dumpty – What Happened After His Fall?

“All the king’s horses and all the king’s men
couldn’t put Humpty together again.”

So, what  really happened to Humpty after his fall?

“After the Fall” by Dan Santat tells the story.  It is one of the most innovative children’s picture books ever.  Humpty is ‘mended’… but not really.


“There were some parts that couldn’t be healed with bandages and glue.”

This is the beginning of the story, and children are immediately captivated.  Is it because of Humpty Dumpty?  No.  He is a character they know, yet it’s the words and illustrations on this page that make children think, “I feel that way sometimes.”

See that ladder?  It is throughout the book; ‘there’ and an obstacle in many everyday things he wants to do.

As the book goes on, Humpty cannot climb up.  The ladder to his wall is looming.  He just can’t do it, and he misses out on many things, like being high above the city and watching the birds.  He loves the birds.

An idea flew by.  If he can’t be up there with the birds, he can make his own.  And so Humpty puts all his energy into making a paper plane bird.


“Making paper planes was harder than I thought.
It was easy to get cuts and scratches.
But day after day, I kept trying…
…and trying…”

This is where children begin to cheer Humpty.  He has survived a fall, realized that he cannot climb a ladder, and tries to do something else to make himself happy.  Humpty is moving forward.  But the worst is yet to happen.  He perfects his paper plane bird.  It is marvelous.  One day it lands on top of the wall – his wall.


“Unfortunately, accidents happen…”

I stop reading and let children look at this powerful illustration.  We talk.  Oh, how we talk.  The floodgates of all that has happened to Humpty open their doors.  Children need to talk about being scared and worried, and messing up.  They understand Humpty.  More importantly, they are relieved they’re not alone.

What does Humpty do?  His beloved paper plane bird has landed on top of the wall – his wall.  He decides to climb that ladder.  This is the bravest thing he has ever done, and Humpty is terrified.


“I didn’t look up.
I didn’t look down.
I just kept climbing>
One step at a time.”

Humpty makes it to the top.  “Until I was no longer afraid” are his words.  We stop and take a deep breath.  Whew!  The conversations flow.  Being afraid is one thing, overcoming that fear is another.  Humpty Dumpty is an egg.  Eggs hatch, and Humpty hatched after he overcame his fear and climbed that ladder.

A most important life lesson is in this book.  Resiliency.  Children need good stories and role models to help them develop this skill.  Humpty Dumpty is a role model.  “After the Fall” is an outstanding book.

Jennie

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Hope

At the end of the road
on my way home from work
this is what I see.

A silhouette against the setting sun.
Dark against light.
A daily reminder of life and hope.
There is always hope.
Always.

Jennie

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Another Spectacular Book by Melissa Sweet

“Some Writer!” by Melissa Sweet is ‘spectacular’, as children’s book illustrator Dayne Sislen points out in her excellent book review. I discovered the book in 2017, and immediately purchased my own copy. As an E.B. White fan and a faithful reader-aloud of “Charlotte’s Web” every year, I found the book to be fascinating. The illustrations are quite different and intriguing, with original handwritten manuscripts and photographs. And, the story is absolutely delightful. It’s a must read. Please enjoy Dayne’s book review:

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A book review though an illustrator’s eyes by Dayne Sislen

The cover for SOME WRITER! a Biography of E.B. White written by Melissa Sweet.

My last post was a book review of the fun book, BALLOONS OVER BROADWAY, also by Melissa Sweet. On that post, I received a great comment from JennieFitzkee, a teacher and the writer of the wonderful blog, “A Teacher’s Reflection.” She asked if I had also read SOME WRITER! The story of E.B. White, by Melissa Sweet, published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company in 2016. I immediately put myself on the request and pick-up list at my local library. I finally was able to get my hands and eyes on the book this week.

A spread for the book SOME WRITER! by Mellissa Sweet.

I absolutely love reading and looking at this book. Every page is a joy to behold. SOME WRITER! The Story of E.B. White is an incredible middle-grade biography of E.B. White, written and illustrated by Melissa Sweet. The book is beautiful to look…

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Read Across America Day ~ 2021

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Stories never really end…even if the books like to pretend they do. Stories always go on. They don’t end on the last page, any more than they begin on the first page.

~ Cornelia Funke, Inkspell ~

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Quote of the day

Thank you Mike Tuggle for posting this outstanding quotation on the importance of stories.

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Stories

“Stories are among the most intimate and personal things we have. Stories touch the imagination and are deeply implanted in one’s psyche and consciousness. Without stories there can be no culture. Without stories there can be no imagination. Without an imagination there is no vitality to human existence. Without that vitality humans are mere robots to be programmed, pacified, and subjugated into parasitic consumers.”

Paul Krause

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Sue Vincent, the Wordsmith and Giver

A true wordsmith can pack a punch into few words that leaves the reader feeling as if s/he has been given a golden key to questioning and understanding.

A wordsmith who is also a giver leaves the reader feeling that s/he has found the road to happiness and a deeper understanding of why.  Love + Wisdom = Magic.  That is Sue Vincent.

I replied to her post “The Last Blog?”  My words were heartfelt, like all of the replies.  BUT, the wordsmith and giver said to me:

And you read me stories, Jennie… how wonderful is that? xx

Only our dear friend Sue Vincent could knock me over with a feather, make me cry, and also empower me to keep reading aloud  and telling stories.

Sue Vincent is a wordsmith and a giver.  I am a lucky one to know her.  She has infused much into my life.  And now, every time I read and tell stories, she will be there.  That is wonderful.

Jennie

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A Tale of Two Dale Chihuly’s – Part 3

In Part 1, I discovered my first Dale Chihuly at the National Liberty Museum in Philadelphia.  In Part 2, I read aloud the poetry book my classroom wrote, inspired by the museum.

A recent update: the museum is planning a new Peace exhibit in March.  They have asked for my classroom books to be part of the exhibit.  Nice!

Part 3
My second Dale Chihuly is at the Huntington Museum of Art, in Huntington, West Virginia.  It stands over ten feet high with 352 hand blown glass pieces, and is housed in their conservatory under a glass canopy, standing in a pond of water.  This beautiful art glass is titled, “The Huntington Museum of Art Tower.”

I was born and raised in Huntington, yet I did not see this magnificent glass structure until many years later, as it was constructed in 2006, decades after I married and moved away.

I was lucky to grow up with The Arts-  an art gallery in town (which is now this museum), and a series of six theatrical events each year at the gorgeous Keith-Albee movie theater.  In order to understand this Dale Chihuly, I need to start at the beginning:

As a child, I went to the Huntington Galleries.  It was fun to look around at paintings and sculptures, and also at their famous firearms of the pioneers (long rifle) collection.  I took children’s art classes and ceramic classes.  Was I good?  No.  Was it fun?  Yes.

Art has a huge impact on the viewer, whether they realize it or not.

Growing up with “The Galleries”, as we called it back in the day, was a part of my childhood.  It wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized how art – even on a small scale – influenced my life.  My husband’s brother was a fine artist and restorer, and founded an art college in Pennsylvania.  My grandmother Nan had art hanging in her apartment that fascinated me.  Art wasn’t a focus, it was just ‘there’.

When I visited the Huntington Museum some years ago, seeing this Chihuly took me back to my childhood, and took me forward to art with children today.

It was Juliet, my preschool student, who confirmed that seeing art has a lasting impression.  The one (and 0nly) poster hanging in my classroom is Starry Night.  She never said a word… until she went to MoMA (Museum of Modern Art) in New York and saw the ‘real deal.’  Her smile says it all.

Fast forward to my life as a preschool teacher in New England.  I am drawn to museums.  I introduce children to art – real art – and inspire them to create their own ‘masterpiece’ and display their work for the whole community to see.  We have just begun preparing for this year’s show, starting with Grandma Moses.  We will recreate Early Renaissance art, Venice, sunflowers, and more.  Here are a few photos of our past Art Shows (they always hang at our post office):

It’s seeing a Dale Chihuly that has a lasting impact, and has inspired me to bring art to children, just as it was brought to me as a child.  I hope you have enjoyed my Tale of Two Dale Chihuly’s stories.

Jennie

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“Life Begins When You Get Back Up” – a Memorable Day at School

 Music brings joy to children.
Books bring questions and thinking.
Teachers bring love and answers.

Today at school was a day I’ll always remember.  So will the children.  Emotions ran high.  In Dickens’ words, “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.”  It was COVID, overcoming fear, needing to be held, singing and dancing, and reading aloud one of the best children’s books – perfect for the day.

It started in the morning with Eddie.  He just stopped.  He folded his arms, scrunched up his face to keep from crying, and refused to talk.  All the coaxing in the world did nothing to help him talk.  Finally I said, “Eddie, come here” and pulled him onto my lap.  He curled up.

I knew what to do.  He wanted to be rocked.  I remember listening to a song recently on the radio that has a chorus:

“Rock me mama like the wind and the rain, rock me mama like a south bound train.  Hey, mama rock me.”

I rocked Eddie and sang those words, over and over.  Children were swaying and nodding.  They loved the song, because it made them feel good.  It makes me feel good, too.

Sometimes words aren’t needed.  Music is far more powerful to reach the soul, pierce the heart.  I sing spontaneously all the time.

Eddie recovered to his ‘old self’, and the morning returned to normal.  I learned later that the song had lasting effects.

I read a picture book every day to children before lunch.  Today I read “After the Fall.  How Humpty Dumpty Got Back Up Again”, by Dan Santat.  I hadn’t planned to read the book, but I knew this was the perfect book for the day.

On the back cover, the words are, “Life begins when you get back up.”  That’s powerful.  And so I read the story, with Humpty saying, “Some parts couldn’t be healed with bandages and glue.”  Yet, he overcame his fears. We stopped to talk about being scared. Children are scared at this time with COVID and feeling very unsettled in their own world.  Yes, they are resilient…but they’re still scared.

I will post a detailed book review soon.

Next was lunch.  Children were talking about the new song.  I could tell that the song was soothing after reading about Humpty Dumpty and how brave he was.  Brave.  That was the word.  A good song can help you to feel brave.  As we listened, Connor suddenly frowned.  He blurted out,

“I want the virus to go away!”

Children are honest, and their words often come out when you least expect it.  I choked back tears.  I had no words at the moment.  I reached across the table to rub his arm.  He understood.  He needed to say that.  I needed to hear that.

“Connor, what do you want to be when you grow up?”

“I want to be a doctor.”

“Will you marry me?”

“I’m gonna marry you and Gloria.”

I played the song (the title is “Wagon Wheel”) and danced with Connor.  He laughed so hard!  Of course all the children wanted to dance with me and be held and twirled around.

I wish every child could be held and twirled to music. 

Then it struck me that we could ‘see’ the song on YouTube.  We did!  So, after lunch, which was completely chaotic (thanks to me), it took a while to get back to our routine.  I wouldn’t have changed a minute of all that happened today – we faced fears and anger, we talked about COVID, we loved each other deeply, we found joy and comfort in music and a great book.  We are a family.

Jennie

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