Growing Bookworms – Reasons why reading is good for your child or teenager’s mental health

Reading is fundamental to a child’s growth and development in so many ways. The social and emotional benefits are most important. Thank you, Robbie, for this excellent post.

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From March 2020 mental health increased world-wide and those affected include children and teenagers. Post-pandemic, mental health issues continue to be prevalent among children and teenagers. Although most children and teenagers who contracted Covid-19 did not experience severe symptoms, numerous mental health problems have emerged among children and teens exposed to the COVID-19 pandemic, including anxiety, stress, depression, panic, irritation, impulsivity,physical symptoms caused by mental or emotional factors, sleep problems,rapid and extreme changes in mood, post-traumaticstress disorder(PTSD), and suicidal behavior.

Reading to your child, or your older child or teenager reading to him or herself, has the following mental health benefits:

Reduces stress

Reading is a wonderful form of escapism for everyone, including children. Following the White Rabbit down a hole, going on an adventure with Will Solvit or Percy Jackson or travelling across America in a pioneer wagon with Laura Ingalls Wilder, all help children escape their problems for…

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My Dog

My friend and fellow blogger, John Howell @ Fiction Favorites  posted a terrific story last month on his Friday Good News post about a little dog who went after a coyote and saved the life of his dog pal.

Dogs saves lives.  I told John my dog saved the life of my father.  He wants to hear the story.  But, there’s more.  My dog also taught me how to walk when I was 9 months old, and much more.  John, I hope you enjoy the story.

It Happened Like This… 
My dog and I were born on the same day of the same year.  He was a black lab, and he loved me.  Rex was his name.  He was a hunting dog, as my dad was a fisherman and duck hunter.  Rex was his trusty companion.  FBI agent during the week, duck hunter and fisherman on the weekends.

Labrador retrievers are trained to have ‘soft mouths’, which keeps them from damaging the ducks.  I was the recipient of Rex’s soft mouth in the best of ways.  When I was nine months old, Mother would prop me up on the couch so she could go about her housework.  Rex would slowly approach me and open his mouth wide.  He was patient.  I would put my arm into his mouth, as far as my elbow.  The distance from my nine month old fingers to elbow was probably less than the size of a duck.

Then, Rex would gently close his mouth and tug, pulling me off the couch, and wait until I got my balance and stood up.  The rest must have been like a comedy movie, as he backed up and I walked forward, stopping at every piece of furniture.

Yes, my dog taught me how to walk.

Being a retriever, he also did some naughty things, like getting all the newspapers from the porches in the neighborhood and delivering them to our front porch.

One weekend Rex and my dad were fishing on the Ohio River.  There are two stories as to what happened:  My dad was wearing heavy rubber waders.  Something caused the boat to tip, and my dad and Rex were in the water.  Immediately the waders filled with water and pulled my dad down and under.  He was an excellent swimmer, but the forces of water were too powerful.  Rex bit onto his wader and somehow managed to swim to shore.

The other story is the same, except instead of waders there were decoys in the water.  My dad became entangled after the boat capsized.  He and Rex took turns going under to release the decoys.

Rex saved my dad’s life.

Dogs save lives.  My big brother wrote a story to Field and Stream magazine about Rex saving our dad’s life.  The article was published.

The story of my dog doesn’t end there… Rex was more than a hero when my dad died.  This will fill your heart:

It’s early Sunday morning.  Dad and Rex are headed out to go duck hunting, along with two other buddies.  A drunk driver from the Saturday night before hit the car head on.  Rex and one of the buddies were the only survivors.

My mother was left with four children.  She was a rock.  She told me and my younger sister that an angel from Heaven had come down to tell our dad God wanted him to be an angel in Heaven, too.  Because of that loving story, I had no sadness.

Rex was living with the survivor, my dad’s best friend….but he would find his way back to our house.  Mother knew Rex needed help, particularly swimming in order to heal his injuries from the car accident.  Along came Jim, who had a boat, and took Rex out for swimming on the river.  He knew Mother, and we all think he was always smitten with her.  Jim and Mother married, and he became my ‘father’.  Oh, he was a bachelor, and Mother had four children.  What a wonderful man.

Thank you, Rex.

Jennie

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Heaven

Heaven
in my own backyard.

Jennie

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One Voice

My final thought today on this Fourth of July
is we are one.  No one is alone.  We all work together.
History is filled with these moments
that make me proud to be an American.

This song says it all. Really.  Enjoy!

Jennie

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A New Flag

A wood carver lovingly made us
an American Flag,
just in time for the Fourth of July.


It is big and heavy, and hangs on our porch.
It’s beautiful!

Daytime

Nighttime

Anytime at all, looking at this American Flag
is a beautiful sight.
Happy Birthday, America!

Jennie

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Sam the Eagle Scout

Sam was my preschooler many years ago.  He always had a smile and enjoyed playing with friends.  Sam’s mother was careful about finding the right preschool for her boy.  When she visited the public library, she found The Groton ABC Book by the Aqua Roomers (yes, card catalogued) and knew Sam and Jennie’s class would be a match.  We were!

Sam’s preschool years were delightful.  He adored Gloria, and his mother told me about the day he saw her in the library and was over the moon.  There’s more to come on that story.

Sam was in my summer camp group, and we had a blast.  My group did play performances for the entire camp, and they were a big hit.  Why?  Because the children decided on the play and their parts.  Really.  It would have been far easier to have a scripted play and assign parts…but then children have no say.  It’s camp.  It’s their play.  Let the children do it.  Oh boy, did they ever do it!

Sam and his best buddy,
the ‘cool dudes’ in a play performance.

I still have our Brown Bear, Brown Bear classroom book:


The years rolled on, and Sam kept in touch.  His senior year was approaching.  He wanted to give back to Groton Community School as his Eagle Scout project.  His plan was to build a shed at the end of the playground to store bikes and outdoor playground equipment.

Simple? No!

The planning included a concrete pad.  Sam had a lot to figure out, plus enlisting help, and getting donors for the materials.  I have heard that an Eagle Scout project takes a year, and now I know that is true.  I stopped by school one weekend when Sam was busy on his project.


The shed was finally finished.  Talk about a labor of love!

And then I got The Invitation to his Eagle Scout Court of Honor.

Since the inception of the Eagle Scout Award in 1912, 2.01% of eligible scouts have earned Scouting’s highest honor.  There is only one group where all members are Eagle Scouts – the astronauts who landed on the moon.  What it takes to achieve this award is more than hard work; it’s a passion, and the foundation is the Scout Oath, the duties to God and country, other people, and self.

Character.

I have been fortunate to attend a few Eagle Scout Court of Honors.  It is a moving, powerful event.  The tradition includes lighting candles, each of which is symbolic.  Your whole life is in front of you, with stories and awards of what you have done since you were seven or eight years old.  Your Scoutmasters and teachers reflect on all you have done in great detail.  Your fellow Scouts tell stories.

I was asked to tell a story about Sam.  I knew immediately the story I would tell – seeing Gloria in the library.  Character at its finest.  The best part is I had the original letter Sam’s mother had written.  I read it aloud to the audience.

Way to go, Sam!  I’m very proud of you.

Jennie

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Stormy Twilight

Twilight.
Thunder rumbles in the distance.
I stay outside to watch the clouds.
They are beautiful in darkening majesty.
They move swiftly and change with the wind.
I turn to look at my porch,
beckoning me to come and watch the outside from the inside.

Jennie

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Book Bears, Library Reading, and a Pleading Letter

My public library Book Bears group and Read Aloud group have finished for the school year.  Book Bears read a book each month, and we discuss the book the following month.  The Year of Billy Miller by Kevin Henkes and Stella Endicott and the Anything-is-Possible Poem by Kate DiCamillo were very popular with Book Bears.  In Read Aloud, we were ‘glued’ to The Wild Robot Escapes, the sequel to The Wild Robot, by Peter Brown.

Taylor is in my Read Aloud group.  When we started reading the book, she immediately checked out The Wild Robot so she could ‘catch up’.  At our last session she asked me,

“Jennie, can I ask you challenge questions about the first book, like you do with us?”

“Sure!  I’m ready.”

“What is the name of Brightbill’s best friend?”

“Chitchat.”

“Who helped Roz and made her a new foot?”

“Mr. Beaver.”

And then the tables were turned, and I asked Taylor challenging questions that were harder, like “What is the name of Nettle’s brother?”

We had a grand time.

Finally she told me that I look just like The Designer.  That made my day!

 The third book in the series comes out in late September.  I have written a letter (handwritten, of course) to author Peter Brown, imploring him to sell me an advanced copy so that I can begin my library Read Aloud with #3, The Wild Robot Protects.

No one thinks Peter Brown will be ‘moved’ to sell me a copy a few weeks early.  Well, I’m the glass-half-full.  Here is my letter:

Dear Peter Brown,

Your new Wild Robot book comes out at the end of September.  I am asking to buy a copy a few weeks early, and for good reason.  Here’s my backstory:

I have read aloud The Wild Robot and The Wild Robot Escapes more times than I can count.  I’m ‘somewhat famous’ for my reading aloud to children.  I’m featured in the seventh edition of the late Jim Trelease’s million-copy bestseller, The Read-Aloud Handbook.  He came to my school to watch me read to children.  I was a live guest on The Kelly Clarkson Show, as a teacher who embraces reading books to children.  As a thank you, I gave Kelly The Wild Robot to read to her children.

I am a teacher.  Next year will be my 40th.  Every day I chapter read to children, and The Wild Robot is as popular as Charlotte’s Web.  I have read the book to my grandchildren (photo included)

and to my library Read Aloud group (photo included)

When one of my students had a serious brain injury, I went to his house every week to read The Wild Robot to him (photo included).


Thank you for giving children a world of nature, adventure, bravery and kindness through your books.  I wonder if you have any idea how many lives – young and old – you have touched.

Sincerely,

Jennie Fitzkee

The letter and photos are in the mail.

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Over the Rainbow, Under the Water

To the five survivors
of the submarine
braving great depths in the ocean
to explore the Titanic,

today there were rainbows
in the water
in my pool.
Underwater rainbows.
You have crossed the underwater Rainbow Bridge.
Bless you.

Jennie

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I’m the Historical Schoolmarm

Every year, third graders in Groton, Massachusetts take a field trip to the old one-room schoolhouse, the Sawtelle School.  It’s living history, and that’s just how children should learn history.

I get to be their teacher.  Lucky me.


Groton is an old New England town, settled in 1655.  The schoolhouse dates from the late 1700’s and was in continuous use as a one-room schoolhouse until 1916.  It served as a school for nearly 125 years and is on the National Register of Historic Places.

In 1833 it was converted from wood to brick.  That’s the year in which I am the schoolmarm, and where this story begins…

I ring the big brass bell to call the scholars to school.  In 1833, children who attended school were ‘scholars’, not students.  “Welcome, scholars!  This is the old schoolhouse in Groton.”

Before I had a chance to say any more, a few children recognized me and ‘broke the line’ to run forward and give me a hug.

“Let’s look at the outside before we go inside.”

I showed children the well (yes the real well is still there), the only source of water at school.  I asked plenty of questions to get them thinking:

How do you get the water out of the well?
How do you drink the water?
What else was water used for?

Next I said, “There were no toilets.  Do you want to see where you had to pee and poo?”

Of course they did!  Taking children to the outhouses was fun.  I told them with great animation what it was like in an outhouse:

There is a thick, long board with a hole in the middle.  You sit on the hole and do your business.  No toilet paper.

Silence and wide eyes.

School was summer and winter, because spring and fall were farm work months.  You’d be working all day.  So, imagine winter here by the outhouse.  It took you ‘forever’ just to walk out here. 

The outhouse was a great bonding experience.  They knew I wasn’t a stuffy, boring old lady.  They knew I liked them.  They knew I was excited about being their teacher.

I took the children inside the school.  The desks (not original) were lined up and children rushed to get a desk.  I watched them.  They rubbed their hands over the surface, moved about, and thought.  Yes, they thought.  I knew they were soaking it all in, the way children do.

When you look around, you see there are no electrical lights and no heaters.  Light came from this oil lamp I am holding.  Heat came from this wood burning stove.  Imagine fetching wood from outside in the winter to heat the schoolhouse, so your fingers wouldn’t be stiff from cold, and you could write on your slate.  Paper was expensive and scarce, so you wouldn’t have that in school.

I let those thoughts sink in, then I showed children artifacts from the school- a quill pen and inkwell, a water dipper, a dinner pail (dinner was eaten at our lunchtime, and supper was eaten at our dinnertime.)  We talked about farming, hard work, and how it was a privilege to go to school.

On the wall at the old schoolhouse is a life-size photo of Eva Belle Torrey, who was a scholar at the school.  Alongside are excerpts from her diary.  I called the children’s attention to Eva.  Her decedents keep in touch and support the Sawtelle School Association.

I read aloud Eva’s three diary entries.  Each started with the weather and how many scholars were at school.  When she was 11, her friend died.  When she was 12, she was going to study Physiology, Physical Geography and Botany this term in the place of History, Common Geography, and Language.

You could have heard a pin drop.

It was time to start school.

We stood to say the Pledge of Allegiance.

Did children know the pledge?  Did they recite it daily?  I wasn’t sure, but then…

Then we were ready to sing the National Anthem…but there was no National Anthem in 1833.  Back then, children sang “My Country ‘Tis of Thee.”  I told the children how I called my mother in disbelief when I learned America didn’t have a National Anthem until 1931.  I held a pretend phone to my ear and said to children:

 Mother, please tell me it isn’t true.  Please tell me we had a National Anthem when you were a little girl.

No, Jennie.  It’s true.

What did you sing?

“My Country ‘Tis of Thee.”

And so it was.  These children stood up, and to my great surprise they  belted out the song.  It made me proud.

I told children the strict rules in school in 1833.  I told them about the forms of discipline with great fanfare:

  • Paddling.  Oh, there was a paddle from the schoolhouse.  My Jennie Story of teacher paddling at my elementary school was a shock.
  • Bending over to touch a spot on the floor, and staying there for a long time.  I called upon a teacher in the group of third graders to be the ‘victim’, and of course the children loved it.
  • Wearing a Dunce Cap.  I called upon a scholar to come sit on the tall stool in the corner and wear the Dunce Cap.  Very popular!
  • Wedging a block of wood in the mouth for whispering.
  • Pegging girl’s braids onto hooks.  Everyone was pretty shocked at this one.  Girls who had long hair and braids instinctively covered their heads.
  • Boys wearing a pink bonnet for teasing.  Everyone thought this was funny.

Children copied a poem, “Good, better, best” onto their slates.  That was not easy to do.  When everyone finished, we recited the poem aloud, together.  Poetry, reciting, reading, and reading aloud were all key elements in what children did at school.  Isn’t that wonderful?  Next, every child had a reader, the book that was used in 1833.  Children took turns standing in front of the class and reading aloud the story.  Oh, it was a great story about a boy who found a bear cub and brought it to school.

Next came Arithmetic.  A few of the third graders knew that Arithmetic is math.  I wrote problems on the chalkboard and children wrote answers on their slates.  They could do addition and subtraction in the thousands.  Mental Arithmetic was next, and it’s always tougher.  I told a story of a boy who had to collect firewood for the schoolhouse, how many pieces he collected, dropped, and so on.  Children wrote the answers on their slates.

Last on the agenda was singing a song from that era.  I taught children “She’ll Be Comin’ Round the Mountain.”  Oh my goodness, they loved it!

Finally, children asked questions:

What happened if you got sick?
If you got hurt, how would you get to a doctor?
How would they get in touch with your mom or dad?

A few days after being the schoolmarm, I received two thank you notes from children who were there as ‘scholars’.  What a wonderful surprise.

Teaching history is important.  Children need to know about the past in order to become good citizens in the future.

Jennie

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