Gloria’s Surprise Santa Gift

Gloria is spending Christmas and the holidays with me and my Hubby.  She is very happy!  On Christmas Eve I asked her if she wanted to write a letter to Santa.  Yes, and no.  She felt awkward telling me that she wanted something special.  So, we had a heart-to-heart talk.  The conversation went something like this:

“Jennie, you know I love the Aqua Room and my friends.”

“I know, Gloria.”

“Well, the problem is, sometimes I’m alone.  Like at night and on some weekends.  I get lonely.  I want a new friend.  Do you think Santa would understand?  Do you understand?”

“Gloria, I think Santa will understand.  And of course I understand!  Do you want me to help you write that letter?”

“Yes!  Thank you, Jennie.  I love you.”

Gloria told me exactly what she wanted to say to Santa.  Here is her letter:

The next morning – Christmas morning – I woke up to find Gloria smiling on the couch, hugging a new friend.

“Look what Santa brought me!  His name is Sam.  He’s wonderful.”

Jennie

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The Best Christmas Ad – My Favorite

I will share this Christmas ad every year, because… it’s that good.
Christmas is about family and friends.
It’s a time to smile and remember.
Yes, remember.
Because in the end, it’s our memories that stick with us.
That’s what we have.

May you find happiness and joy this season.
It’s the little things, not the big things, that are important.
Dance, smile, hug your kids, look at the sky.
Make memories!

Jennie

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A Bad Day, and a Remarkable Turnaround.

I believe.  This is the season of believing, and what happened yesterday is proof.

Yesterday was a bad day.  Period.  School was difficult, and nothing I was doing with children made an ounce of difference.  When I got home, Hubby asked, “How was your day?”  I said, “I don’t want to talk about it.”  I didn’t.  Why hash all that went wrong?

I went to the grocery store and splurged on a Powerball Ticket.  The clerk is always wonderful and chatty.  She asked how my day was, and then I asked how her day was.

“My thirteen-year-old is bullied in school, and they are doing nothing about it.  Today we got an eviction notice.  We have to be out by the end of January.”

So, here is this happy person, someone I enjoy talking with when I’m at the store, and her bad day makes mine seem like peanuts.  I asked her to blow on my Powerball ticket for good luck, because I’d give her a million dollars if I won.

Giving.  That’s what it’s all about.

And then more happened.

I went to pick up a sandwich on the way to school today.  A former parent was there, and she was excited to see me.  She needed to tell me about her son, and how life is not so good.  She cried.  Then she took my shoulders and said, “Your blog has saved me.  I read every post.  It’s what keeps me going.  I don’t know how I’d survive without reading your blog.”

My goodness.  I hugged her.  I had no words.  Everyone in the store was looking.  You could have heard a pin drop.

When you have a bad day, remember someone else had a day (or more) that is worse.

Count your blessings, because there are many.  You just might not see them at the time.

Believe.  Right around the corner is something wonderful.  You just have to look for it.  That takes patience, which I’m still working on.  In this case, the two events are proof.

“People will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget
how you made them feel.”
~Maya Angelou~

Jennie

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This Story is the Real Meaning of Christmas.

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Best Children’s Christmas Books – My Annual Post

This is a repost of my favorite Christmas books.  The only new edition (featured in my last post) is Mr. Willowby’s Head Over Heels Christmas.  Every year these books grow stronger, because children love them.  These are the books children and adults want to read over and over again.  That’s why they’re the best.  Please, go to the library, get some of these books and read them aloud to your children.  You will be hooked, too.     

Christmas books are often more meaningful to read to a child after the holiday, once a child has experienced the joy of Christmas.  Here is my collection:

I want to share with you my favorite Christmas books.  I love books, and I love reading to children.  After a gazillion years, these are the ‘tried and true’, stories that children love.  Me, too!

Grab tissues, laughter, and wonder, and some history.  Some books you will recognize. Others might seem new, but they’re not— they’re just better.

The first time I read The Polar Express, by Chris Van Allsburg was in 1985, when the book was published.  I was at a huge family Christmas gathering. Someone put the book in my hand and asked me to read it to the crowd.  This was a new book for me, and as I read the words I was on that train ride.  The ending was hard to read aloud with my heart in my throat. The movie is good, but the book is superior.

Red and Lulu, by Matt Tavares is the story of two cardinals who live in a mighty evergreen tree.  They love their home, their tree.  Best of all, they love it when winter arrives and Christmas carolers sing close by.  Red leaves to get food, and when he returns, the tree is being cut down and hauled away.  He tells Lulu to stay, and he desperately follows the truck as it drives the tree away – but he can’t fly fast enough.  The tree becomes the tree at Rockefeller Center, and the story behind finding Lulu and what happens is fascinating.  It’s Christmas, nature, love, adventure, and never giving up.

On Christmas Eve, by Peter Collington is a captivating wordless book, in the style of The Snowman by Raymond Briggs.  It is based in England, with fairies and Santa Claus traditions.  It is fascinating to follow the fairies helping Santa!

Mr. Willowby’s Christmas Tree, by Robert Barry is a delightfully predictable tale of a tree that is too tall.  Each time the top is snipped off, it goes to someone else who has the same problem, and so on.  The mouse gets the very last tree top.  The story is done in rhyme, always a delight to the ears of children.

Morris’s Disappearing Bag, by Rosemary Wells is the story of Morris, the youngest in the family, who is too little to play with his sibling’s gifts.  He discovers one last present under the tree, a disappearing bag.  I wonder if J.K. Rowling read this book- perhaps it was the inspiration to create Harry Potter’s invisibility cloak.

Carl’s Christmas, by Alexandra Day is one of the Carl book series.  It is beautifully done with full color illustrations.  Of course Carl is a dog who is often left to look after the baby.  That beginning alone is a story grabber.  Best of all, it is a wordless book, leaving much to speculate and talk about.

Santa Bruce, by Ryan T. Higgins is the newest book on this list.  Bruce is a grumpy old bear, and is again the victim of mistaken identity.  He is not the real Santa, yet all the animals are convinced that he is.  The book is absolutely hilarious.

If I had to pick only one out of the pile of books, it would be Apple Tree Christmas, by Trinka Hakes Noble.  The story takes place in New Hampshire in the 1800’s.  A blizzard, a farm, a tree, and a child who loves to draw.  It is thrilling from beginning to end… grab the tissues, it’s a true story.

My almost number one book is The Year of the Perfect Christmas Treeby Gloria Houston.  The story takes place in rural Appalachia, close to my roots.  It is a story of rural traditions, WWI, a train, and what a mother does on Christmas Eve.  And, it’s a true story. Recommended for kindergarten and above.

Merry Christmas, Strega Nona, by Tomie dePaola is a favorite. Everyone loves Strega Nona and Big Anthony.  This book incorporates the culture of Italy and Christmas, and the lessons of life.

Night Treeby Eve Bunting is a modern tale that tells the story of a family and their tree in the woods.  Every Christmas Eve the family bundles up and heads from their house to the woods.  They find “their tree”, the one they have decorated every year for the animals.  It is a well written story, weaving adventure and giving, and family being together.

Dr. Seuss has always been one of the best.  He outdid himself with How the Grinch Stole Christmas.  The message of the true meaning of Christmas shines through in this book.  Please skip the movie, it doesn’t hold a candle to the book.

Every adult should read these books.  Period.  They are that good.  Then, spread the joy and learning by reading aloud these books to children, young and old.  They will love the stories.  You will, too.

Merry Christmas!

Jennie

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Mr. Willowby’s Book, Then and Now

Mr. Willowby’s Christmas Tree, by Robert Barry is a delightfully predictable tale of a tree that is too tall.  Each time the top is snipped off, it goes to someone else who has the same problem, and so on.  The mouse gets the very last tree top.  The story is done in rhyme, always a delight to the ears of children.

Robert Barry wrote and illustrated the book in 1963.  The fact that it is still popular certainly speaks volumes.  Yes, this Christmas book is a classic.  I read it to my preschool class every year.

Fast forward to 2025.

Robert Barry passed away in 2012.  His son, John, found folders in the back of a dusty, old, overstuffed, forgotten filing cabinet.  They contained draft manuscripts and sketches for a second Mr. Willowby story that had never been published.

Wow!  Big wow!

Mr. Willowby’s Head Over Heels Christmas is a delightful story!  The same characters are in the book.  They need to help Mr. Willowby get his big tree.  Their adventure to do so keeps the reader captivated, and the ending is quite a surprise.

The back of the book has a message written by John about his discovery of the manuscript and drawings by his father.  I can only imagine his shock in discovering such a treasure.

I learned that the original book was featured on Captain Kangaroo in the 60’s.  In 1995 it was adapted for a Muppets holiday television special.  This follow-up story was written in the 60’s.  In the words of John upon his discovery,

“Pleased by the positive response to Mr. Willowby’s Christmas Tree, in the 1960’s my father wrote a follow-up story featuring Mr. Willowby, which he hoped to publish someday.  Other projects got in the way, and the story — together with his original sketches — disappeared into an overstuffed file cabinet.  I had no idea that the manuscript for Mr. Willowby’s Head Over Heels Christmas existed, and I was surprised and excited to discover it lost in a stack of old story ideas and sketches.  I am sure my father would be delighted to know that this long-lost holiday tale featuring Mr. Willowby and his animal friends is finally being shared with new generations of readers.  I hope you enjoy it.”  ~John Barry~

Thank goodness John found this treasure.  I love this new book!

Jennie

P.S. Stayed tuned for my favorite Christmas books.

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Gloria’s Thanksgiving

Gloria’s adventures and weekends with children are always wonderful.  When it’s a special holiday, in this case Thanksgiving, Gloria is one lucky gal to spend the holiday with a child.

First, she went to Cape Cod, Massachusetts.  She met the grandparents and quickly made friends with the family.

Then it was game night.  Don’t you love Scrabble?

Then it was Turkey Day!  Food and more food, a parade.  Gloria was patient and kind.  She loved her turkey headdress,
….but the weekend wasn’t over yet.

Hockey Time!
Gloria played hockey.
She loved the hockey helmet.
Apparently there were other kids at the rink
who remember Gloria from long ago.
That was a surprise for the family
(but not for me)
especially when they heard shouts of “Gloria!”


Gloria brings people together.  She has a way about her, and she brings out the kindness and love in others.  No wonder she’s so popular.

Jennie

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Jennie

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Writing With Children Makes a Difference

Language is the key to literacy, and literacy is the key to writing and reading.  That’s the pattern, how it develops.  So, what do I do in school to make this happen?

I sing.  Singing cements words.  I sing “The Days of the Week” song.  I sing the “Hello To” song to each child.  I sing books, like Goodnight Moon.  I sing in the bathroom with children.  When I was a child I learned how to spell ‘encyclopedia’ from Jiminy Cricket singing in the movie “Pinocchio.”

I read aloud.   When it comes to language and words, the receptive part of the brain is well-developed compared to the expressive part of the brain.  That means children ‘get it’ long before they can verbalize.  I read picture books throughout the day, sometimes to a group, sometimes to an individual child.  It often happens that a child brings me a book and asks, “Jennie, will you read this to me?”  I chapter read at rest time.  This is a work-out for the brain, as there are no pictures.

Pouring all these words into little brains is the beginning.  Next, they need to see words in print.  In the classroom, everything is labeled.  Does that mean children can read those words?  No.  But it lets a child know there is a written word for everything.  This helps develop familiarity and comfort.  This is the start of literacy.

Next, I write their names and I write letters, all with children looking on beside me.  Sometimes children want to try and write, too.  We play games with alphabet letters, and we focus on the first letter in a child’s name.  Children roll playdoh to make letters.  There is no structure or agenda, just exposure and fun.

Ramping up words into writing happens when we write giant thank you notes to guests.  I write the words with children, and they decorate the thank you note.  Here is smiling General Z holding the thank you note we mailed to him:

It gets better!  We are learning about woodland animals.  Bears have been a big focus and very popular.  I have a huge collection of stuffed bears and clothing which we put into dramatic play.  Nothing else, just bears.  Children started to give bears names and personalities.  I added a doll so we could do “Goldilocks and the Three Bears”.  Children used voices.  They were ‘in the zone’.

I seized the moment; “Let’s write a bear story!”  Yes, they were eager.  “Wait, I have to get the clipboard so I can write your words.”  We were all huddled together.  I had my pen and paper ready.  Here is their bear story:

THE BEARS

Once upon a time there were five bears.
They lived in the woods.
They were friendly.
They were a family.
They ate meat.  They were always hungry.
They wanted to go on an adventure.
They went to the river to get fish.
They stayed in the boat and fished.
Then they went to Florida.
They went to Disney and saw Mickey Mouse.
They used the boat to get pizza
and go back home.

THE END


Isn’t this wonderful?  Do you see what’s happening here?  Language and literacy are spilling over into writing, making connections between the spoken word and the written word.  This will set up a foundation for reading.  I’m so proud!

Jennie

P.S.  Speaking of language, there is only one common denominator among National Merit Scholars.  One.  It’s not class president or captain of a team.  They have dinner together with their families at least four times a week.  That speaks volumes (pun intended.)

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Community Service in a Different Way

I live in a town, not a city.  It’s not rural, but pretty close.  40+ years ago when we moved here there were no road signs, no traffic lights, and the phone number was just the last five digits.  It was a bit of a culture shock, especially the people.  Oh, the people.  I’m from the south (outgoing and friendly), and these northerners were rather cold.  So it seemed.  I just had to open my eyes… no, my heart.

People did come together.  I just didn’t see that back then.  Fast forward 40 years.  Now, more than ever, people not only come together, they reach out to help others.  Our town delivers food and services to residents, but there is much more.  We have a Community Center that has everything from soup to nuts – everything to bring people together.

Isn’t that what we all want, what we need?

The Prescott Community Center has it all, whether you’re an oldster like me, or a child.

  • History and culture
  • Current events
  • Arts and crafts
  • Dance
  • Performing arts
  • Fitness
  • Science and technology
  • Nature
  • Home and garden
  • Games and recreation
  • Writing and literature

And more!

Here is where community service plays a big part, especially for me:


I was part of the Community Spelling Bee, the big annual fundraiser.  Participants were in groups of four, and my group was from school, Groton Community School.  We were Three Blind Mice and the Big Cheese.

Although we did not win (who knew daiquiri had three’i’s’?), we had so much fun!

We did get second place in the Humorous Costume award.

What’s really important here?

I saw many past families and people in my community I don’t see often.  Connection.  I was part of something bigger.  I was part of my community.  I was helping.

My library reading groups are my community service, yet this is so much more.  Thank you, Prescott Community Center.  Groton has come a long way.  I have, too.

Jennie

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