A Bad Day, and a Remarkable Turnaround.

I believe.  This is the season of believing, and what happened yesterday is proof.

Yesterday was a bad day.  Period.  School was difficult, and nothing I was doing with children made an ounce of difference.  When I got home, Hubby asked, “How was your day?”  I said, “I don’t want to talk about it.”  I didn’t.  Why hash all that went wrong?

I went to the grocery store and splurged on a Powerball Ticket.  The clerk is always wonderful and chatty.  She asked how my day was, and then I asked how her day was.

“My thirteen-year-old is bullied in school, and they are doing nothing about it.  Today we got an eviction notice.  We have to be out by the end of January.”

So, here is this happy person, someone I enjoy talking with when I’m at the store, and her bad day makes mine seem like peanuts.  I asked her to blow on my Powerball ticket for good luck, because I’d give her a million dollars if I won.

Giving.  That’s what it’s all about.

And then more happened.

I went to pick up a sandwich on the way to school today.  A former parent was there, and she was excited to see me.  She needed to tell me about her son, and how life is not so good.  She cried.  Then she took my shoulders and said, “Your blog has saved me.  I read every post.  It’s what keeps me going.  I don’t know how I’d survive without reading your blog.”

My goodness.  I hugged her.  I had no words.  Everyone in the store was looking.  You could have heard a pin drop.

When you have a bad day, remember someone else had a day (or more) that is worse.

Count your blessings, because there are many.  You just might not see them at the time.

Believe.  Right around the corner is something wonderful.  You just have to look for it.  That takes patience, which I’m still working on.  In this case, the two events are proof.

“People will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget
how you made them feel.”
~Maya Angelou~

Jennie

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About Jennie

I have been teaching preschool for over forty years. This is my passion. I believe that children have a voice, and that is the catalyst to enhance or even change the learning experience. Emergent curriculum opens young minds. It's the little things that happen in the classroom that are most important and exciting. That's what I write about. I was a live guest on the Kelly Clarkson Show. I am highlighted in the seventh edition of Jim Trelease's million-copy bestselling book, "The Read-Aloud Handbook" because of my reading to children. My class has designed quilts that hang as permanent displays at the National Liberty Museum in Philadelphia, the Fisher House at the Boston VA Hospital, and the Massachusetts State House in Boston.
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9 Responses to A Bad Day, and a Remarkable Turnaround.

  1. Fraggle's avatar Fraggle says:

    Silver linings Jennie 🙂 hope your days are good now.

  2. beth's avatar beth says:

    yes, absolutely. every word of this.

  3. willedare's avatar willedare says:

    Remembering to be grateful and counting our blessings are two quiet yet super powerful life practices available to each one of us (if we can remember to take a few deep breaths and slow down in order to regain perspective…) Somehow they also tend to evoke empathy, too. Thanks for another human, inspiring blog post, Jennie!

    • Jennie's avatar Jennie says:

      Well said, Will. Those few deep breaths make a difference. We have the children take those breaths, too. Perspective is important. I like how you commented on evoking empathy. Many thanks, Will!

  4. Spontaneously feeling genuine and profound gratitude is a wonderful thing. Thanks for sharing yours, Jennie. I love that quote too. Hugs on the wing.

  5. Lifetime Chicago's avatar Lifetime Chicago says:

    Every time!

  6. willowdot21's avatar willowdot21 says:

    I know how that mum feels Jennie your blog means the world to me too 💜💜💜

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